Fathers and Children: A Book Review, Giveaway, and Activity

The bond between a father and his child is a special one.

Fathers are teachers, playmates, and best friends. Fathers are a source of stability, security, and guidance.

As I pause to reflect on what would have been my father’s seventy-ninth birthday, I realize how great my father’s impact was on the person I am today. He wore many hats as he guided me from childhood to adulthood.

Daddy donned a baseball cap as he organized family wiffle ball games played in the backyard of our Berryville home.

He wore a chef’s hat as he taught me how to create a delicious meal for a large family of 7.

He wore a construction hard hat as he transformed the shell of our Midland house into a home—not only building strong walls but also creating strong bonds of love and a sense of belonging.

Now that my father is no longer with me, I understand how important it is to fill my own hat rack with hats of every shape, size, and purpose. I realize that every moment we spent together, no matter how seemingly insignificant, created a hat for me to add to my own collection.

Thank you, Daddy, for building a wonderfully full hat rack.

 

In memory of my father, I created today’s activity—an opportunity to shine the light on the moments that help shape a child. I selected a book that represents the many roles a father plays in the lives of their children as the springboard for this activity.

My Father is Taller than a Tree, written by Joseph Bruchac and illustrated by Wendy Anderson Halperin, is a book that explores the many hats that all fathers wear. The book highlights tender and memorable moments experienced between fathers and their children. Those moments are as varied as the father-son duos represented—raking leaves, an errand run, a visit to the local park, and many more.

Told in rhyme, the story meanders through those meaningful occasions. With their soft-toned palette, Halperin’s illustrations blend perfectly with the Bruchac’s words that glide across each page spread. Together they provide a cozy and comfortable story that is perfect as a bedtime story.

Just as the story used for my last book review, My Father is Taller than a Tree will definitely provide a learning experience for both parents and their children.

The Details:

Recommended ages: 3-7
Word count: 198
Average words per two page spread: 14
Extra value: Provides a springboard for discussions on what a child views as important.

GROWING STRONG BONDS BETWEEN PARENTS AND CHILDREN 

 This activity is loosely structured. The focus is on developing parent/child activities that create a positive memory for both the child and the parent.

MATERIALS:

Book: My Father is Taller than a Tree (available on Amazon)

Printout of tree (provided)

Scissors

Colored copy paper in 2 colors*

Repositionable adhesive

*Hint: It is not recommended to use basic construction paper. The paper may pull apart as the leaf clusters are removed from the tree. Colored copy paper or colored card stock work better for this activity and can be reused.

INSTRUCTIONS:

 1. Read and discuss the story.

2. Create a list of 5 to 7 things that your child likes to do with you.

3. Create a list of 5 to 7 things that you like to do with your child.

4. Randomly cut 7 of each color paper to place on the tree. One color will be used to record your child’s activity choices. The other color will be used to record your activity choices.

 

5. Write the activities on the paper cutouts, as shown.

 

 

6. Apply repositionable adhesive to the back of the papers and place them on the tree.**

 

7. Over the next two weeks, take turns selecting and completing activities from the tree.

**This activity can be easily modified to reflect changes of the seasons. In the fall, use orange, red, or yellow paper. As the activities are completed, scatter them at the bottom of the tree to resemble piles of leaves. In the spring, add lighter shades of green, adding the leaf clusters to the tree as the activities are completed.

Interested in adding this book to your child’s library? Register here for a book giveaway.*

*This giveaway will include a free copy of MY FATHER IS TALLER THAN A TREE (Joseph Bruchac and Wendy Anderson Halperin), as well as another surprise. The registration will last from the posting of this blog post until midnight, August 13, 2013. One winner will be randomly selected from all entries. The book will be shipped from Amazon within approximately 2 weeks following the close of the giveaway. The giveaway is open to residents of the United States with a United State’s mailing address. The winner’s name will be posted on the blog, unless the winner chooses not to have his/her name posted.

Giveaway Update: Congratulations to Lynn and Linda as the winners of this month's giveaway.

 

Book Review and a Giveaway, Too-WHEN A DRAGON MOVES IN

When A Dragon Moves in, written by Jodi Moore and illustrated by Howard McWilliam, is the perfect bedtime story for those dragonfire-warm summer nights.

The Details:
Recommended ages: 3-7
Word count: 397
Average words per two page spread: 25
Extra value: Encourages use of imagination, great for identifying details

WHEN A DRAGON MOVES INto your world, be prepared for a day packed with adventure. This is quite evident when a dragon moves into a little boy’s sandcastle during a family excursion to the beach.

When the child’s family is too busy to play with him, the boy creates his own version of companionship—a marshmallow toasting, raft floating, sandwich gobbling dragon.

They have fun.

They explore.

They get into innocent mischief.

~All the things that dragons and little boys are meant to do.

This wonderful summer-themed story will most definitely edge its way into fall, winter, and spring story time requests. The pacing of the story is bouncy quick. The meaning behind the story, however, is everlasting.

While the target audience of the book is children ages 3 through 7, the lesson learned from the story will apply to the grownups that read the story to their little ones—Take time to travel through the world of imagination with the children in your life. Who knows—even you might find a dragon at your doorstep.

 

The activity I have created to go with this book falls right into the above-stated category. So, climb into your imagination and explore the possibilities of a dragon moving into your home.

On the hunt for dragon treasure

This activity is loosely structured. Have fun with it. Modify it. Let your little ones guide the direction each step takes. Not only will both of you have fun, but your little ones will also practice critical thinking skills.

MATERIALS:

Book: WHEN A DRAGON MOVES IN (Jodi Moore, Howard McWilliam)

Footprints (painted footprints for family members, printed dragon footprints)*

Shark's teeth or seashells

Jewels (rainbow colored cereal used, but many other options)

Various beach gear inside a beach bag

Marshmallows

INSTRUCTIONS:

1. The night before the main activity, read the story as a bedtime tale. Discuss what dragons like and how real they are.
2. The next morning set the stage for the dragon discovery. Place footprints in various places throughout the house. Place a beach bag where your little one will see it first thing in the morning.

3. When your child finds the prints in the kitchen, discuss why the dragon was there. For example, dragons get hungry. Was he looking inside the pantry for some food? Or—did he want to toast some marshmallows?

4. When your child finds the prints that lead to the back yard, explore the reason he went there. Did he leave any of his dragon teeth and scales in the sandbox?

 

 

5. As your child finds more prints, have him talk about whose prints they are and why they are there. For example, Mom’s prints in front of the closet may mean she might have been putting clothing away earlier in the day.*

6. Talk about where dragons like to sleep—cozy caves where they can protect their treasure. Continue the dragon hunt until the treasure is found.

 

*A few days prior to the activity, have some painting fun by making paint footprints of the members of your family. Allow each member to paint their prints with their favorite colors. These can be used for a variety of activities—color recognition, size sorting, counting, etc.


This book is available on Amazon.com.

 

Interested in adding this book to your child’s library? Register here for a book giveaway. Click here or add a comment to the blog.*

*This giveaway will include a free copy of When a Dragon Moves In (Jodi Moore and Howard McWilliam), as well as a surprise. The registration will last from the posting of this blog post until midnight, July 27, 2013. One winner will be randomly selected from all entries. The book will be shipped from Amazon within approximately 2 weeks following the close of the giveaway. The giveaway is open to residents of the United States with a United State’s mailing address. The winner’s name will be posted on the blog, unless the winner chooses not to have his/her name posted.

 

GIVEAWAY UPDATE: The second book giveaway is now complete.

Congratulations to Katie B. and to Pam!

 

Fireworks and Hummingbirds~So Different Yet So Alike

Sometimes doing a little bit of nothing with the kiddos can easily add up to a lot of somethings.

On this Independence Day Eve, take a break from the hurry scurry picnic and firework preparation, relax, and watch the tiny bundles of energy--better known as hummingbirds, as they enjoy their evening meal. This video can easily be enjoyed for what it is—the amazing way that Mother Nature designs her masterpieces. Yet, the short clip can also provide a springboard for discussions. Similar to the activity that compared snowflakes and rainbows, hummingbirds and fireworks have many similarities and differences.

Discussion suggestions include their size, how they move, their colors, when we see them, nature or manmade, how close you must be to see them, etc.

 

After seeing how many of the tiny wonders flock to the feeder in my back yard, you might even want to add one to your yard.

***Please check back for a July-themed set of activities.***

HAPPY BIRTHDAY, AMERICA!